Have you ever tried to help someone and sundelly you were considered a bad person? Sometimes it happens...Sometimes, being a good person doesn't help you a lot. I met a friend who doesn't have a good portuguese, and this friend makes a lot of mistakes. I was supposed to correct him, but when I did it, I was judged as a person that wanted to laugh at him. I don't mind if he doesn't speak correctly (i guess i've minded more before), but I think that I can help him, due to my portuguese skills. Sincerely, I din't like this judgement, and I decided not to help anyone.
I met another friend who was interested on meeting one friend of mine. He intended to date this friend of mine. But, I decided not to do this, and I was consideredbad person too. So, what had I better do?
Nowadays, I can figure out the differences between people. There's people who prefer to be helped, others prefer not to. Okay, okay, I know that everybody have their particularities, but it's hard to realize what's the person's type.
I know my type. So, I guess I can help and judge who I decide to. I'm not obligated to help anyone, but I'm sure of my good intentions. From this moment, I'd better stay quiet and wait for help, but if it doesn't work, fuck off!